After two years, I met someone for the first time. The same day I met them for the first time, I closed the distance. The same day I closed the distance, I got married.

Now doing such a crazy thing has consequences, as I soon learned.

From catfishing, amongst other things.

But I still run this page for LDRs, to protest against Cyber bullying,and help heal from LDR breakups.

I also write poetry about my boyfriend. So unless the quotes are stated as someone else's, they are mine.

My experience was proof that with hard work and commitment, you can close the distance with your significant other. And the other people I share are too.

My heart currently resides in Alabama. We try to visit each other often and have been dating for several months now.

I share my new experience with you. And look forward to you sharing with me yours.

I also try to do my best to give ordinary relationship advice as well.

*No content is of my own unless stated so*

ALL are welcome!

Would you like to work together?

Please inbox me if you're interested in helping each other out or being listed on my page!

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Casting for New TV Show

Hi There,

I’m reaching out from a TV production company called Entertainment One in Los Angeles. We are currently casting a TV series that might be of interest to your followers, and I was wondering if you would be able to send out or post our casting notice (see below). Please let me know if that would be possible or if you have any additional questions. Thanks so much!

Ben Megargel / Entertainment One /


·      Are you in a long distance, romantic relationship with someone in another country?

·      Are you considering picking up your life and moving abroad to live with the one you love or are they considering doing it for you?

·      Or have you already made the decision to move overseas and you’re about to embark on the journey?

If so, we’re looking for you!  A major television production company is currently searching for people who are in long distance relationships with another individual that lives abroad in order to participate in a documentary television series for a major cable network.

We are specifically seeking cultured, English-speaking individuals from all over the world.  This show would follow peoples’ lives as they make the leap and move abroad for love.

If you are – or you know – someone with plenty of personality who is currently thinking about uprooting for love, or about to do so, or has thought about doing so in the past, then we want to talk to you!

To submit or nominate someone, please email the following:

1)    Full name(s), age, and contact info

2)    A short bio on your relationship and how your decision would impact your friends and family and career

3)    Several photos of both you and the person you’re currently dating abroad

“Hello! I'm currently in a ldr with my boyfriend of a year. He moved away about 3 months ago and idk I feel like the love is gone...but I'm afraid if I break up with him he'll fall back into depression and kill himself or something..”

That’s a tough situation….And I may get a bit of slack for this, but I don’t care because it needs to be said. 
You are not his mother, and his life is not your own. 
When I say that, I can tell that you obviously still care about him. Just may not be in love with him. It happens, and nobody is perfect.

You can’t stay in a relationship with someone like that if you don’t feel the same way. It’s unfair to you. And it’s quite unhealthy. Falling in love with someone can be highly addictive. Like a new drug you cannot get enough of. So the more you let him hang on to you, the more damage it will be if you don’t let him go. 
What I DO suggest though, is that if you wish to remain friends with him, you try to be a supportive friend. You don’t want him to feel like you don’t care. I also suggest contacting his family and friends if you can if you think he’d really hurt himself. They could get him help if they see any red flags. 

I suffer from anxiety and depression as well as my boyfriend, and many of my friends. It’s nothing to joke about. But you cannot allow that to deter you from your life and happiness. I wish the best for the two of you whether you remain together or go separate ways. 

“Hey, just stumbled upon your blog and love it. My man and I are in a long distance relationship ourselves. 4 years of love <3 Would love for you to follow us! - LDR Pride -”

Thank you kind person! :) 4 years! That’s great! ANNND Followed! :)

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